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How To Eliminate Self-Doubt & Imposter Syndrome… With Adrian Moreno & Samia Bano
#SelfDoubt or #ImposterSyndrome making you feel small and unworthy despite all your accomplishments and success? Think you're broken in some way and need fixing?
Listen now to this interview with Adrian Moreno, #MindsetExpert, also known as the Business Hypnotist! Adrian helps you realize you're not broken, and shows you how you can create the #lifeyouwant by building a mind that works for you instead of against you. :)
HINT: It’s about learning to create a sense of unshakable certainty...
#mindset #mindsetiseverything #mindsetcoach #hypnosis #hypnotherapy
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ABOUT SAMIA:
Samia Bano is the #HappinessExpert, author, speaker, podcaster & coach for coaches and healers. Samia is most known for her book, 'Make Change Fun and Easy' and her #podcast of the same name. With the help of her signature Follow Your Heart Process™, a unique combination of #PositivePsychology and the spiritual wisdom of our most effective #ChangeMakers, Samia helps you overcome #LimitingBeliefs, your chains of fear, to develop a #PositiveMindset and create the impact and income you desire with fun and ease…
Samia’s advanced signature programs include the Happiness 101 Class and the Transformative Action Training.
Samia is also a Certified #ReikiHealer and Crisis Counselor working to promote #MentalHealthAwareness.
Samia models #HeartCenteredLeadership and business that is both #SociallyResponsible and #EnvironmentallyFriendly.
Samia is a practicing #Muslim with an inter-spiritual approach. As someone who has a love and appreciation for diversity, she is a #BridgeBuilder between people of different faiths and cultures.
Although Samia currently lives in California, USA, she has lived in 3 other countries and speaks Hindi, Urdu, and English fluently.
To Book your Free HAPPINESS 101 EXPLORATION CALL with Samia, click: https://my.timetrade.com/book/JX9XJ
Full Video Transcript
SAMIA: Hello, Salaam, Shalom, Namaste, Sat Sri Akal, Aloha, Holah, Ciao, Bonjour, Buna, and Privet! It's really really good to be with you again today... And we have a very special guest with us today, it's Adrian Moreno... And Adrian is a Mindset Expert. And he's also known as the Business Hypnotist, and I'm so excited to have you with us today Adrian. Welcome...
ADRIAN: Hey, what's going on... I'm really excited to be here. Thanks a lot for having me.
SAMIA: It's absolutely my pleasure and my happiness to have you with us... And I’ll ask you to please tell us more about who you are and what you do.
ADRIAN: Yeah! So I help people realize they're not broken... I help people create the life that they want by helping them build a mind that works for them instead of against them... So I specifically have been working as a hypnotist you know for a good while now...But my overall thing is redefining what it means to be human because I believe we have a very limited perspective on the potential of what it means to be human and what we are really capable of... So yeah it's a little bit about the work I do and I'm loving every bit of it.
SAMIA: I love it. And just in what you shared right now about what you do... my gosh, just there were so many profound things that you said right there… So let's begin to dig into first of all the first… one of the first things you said is that you help people realize they're not broken… Tell me more about that...
ADRIAN: Well every… as a hypnotist I specifically work with entrepreneurs and A player's… When I say players I mean executives, salespeople, producers, right... And I realized a lot of them come to me because they have things that they want to fix… you know they're like I have social anxiety… even salespeople are like I get anxiety before sales calls… or you know I have a fear of public speaking, I have a fear of leading my team, I feel like I'm gonna lose everything... Or they feel like something is wrong with them as a number one thing, like you know I have this problem. I feel like I'm broken and I need to be fixed in some way... And I also know a lot of people have ideas that they're broken… But that… what I just said is the significant part… ideas of being broken... I want people to understand that being broken is an idea... That's not a reality… there is no such thing as an actual broken human being… Even… I mean every single one of us are full-blown human beings… and I use this you know point to like really drive it across... You know I personally know my dad's… one of my dad's best friends… he lost both of his legs you know. So he did not have his legs but that wasn't a broken person or half a personality in any way... That was a full-on human being there you know. So clearly there is a full being that can never be broken. But when we believe we're broken our reality reorganizes itself to show that… So what I do is I just help people realize they're not broken... Because when you already have everything you want, you have all your goals, you're as wealthy as you want to be, like you genuinely do have everything, it's a matter of realizing it's not a matter of accomplishment, it's a matter of realization... Have you realized the abundant part of yourself... Have you realized this part of yourself... Have you realized these things... And same thing when it comes to brokenness... Have you realized the fact that broken is an idea and there is a full complete being holding the idea? And my job is to help that complete being remain unleashed by the beliefs that they put on themselves... So that's basically… if that answered your question.
SAMIA: Ah! I just love everything that you shared right now... And it made me think about the example that you gave about your father's friend who had missing legs is how you describe it right... Made me think about really how our society views people who have various what we call disabilities at a physical level... I mean there's all kinds of other things as well of course, but if you just look at that physical disabilities for a moment… I actually have multiple members in my family, my extended family, who have various physical disabilities. Like I… like my own brother, he is wheelchair bound, he has not been able to stand on his own feet for… I've lost count… I think like 25 years or something like that... And even prior to his ending up in the wheelchair, he has this genetic disorder because of it you know his muscles have been growing weaker and weaker over time you know… I have an uncle who has that same genetic disorder you know. And so even with… and beyond that you know I have other family members like grandparents who because of age-related issues developed various physical disabilities and so forth... so I have grown up in a home and a family where I have seen a variety of physically challenged...
ADRIAN: Yeah...
SAMIA: ...like a range of like physical challenges that people have to deal with in their lives... And one of the things that I've learned, especially in the context of having lived with my brother all my life, is that it's not a tragedy that he has this condition, or this thing that he has… I mean it just is what it is... And he has figured out how to deal with it and live with it and thrive through it and so have we… Like, I don't see him as some… like poor person… like you know poor like there's a lot of people who have this attitude when they see people with disabilities...
ADRIAN: ..they have ideas...
SAMIA: ..they feel sorry… Yes! Exactly...
ADRIAN: ...just ideas...
SAMIA: Yes...
ADRIAN: Ideas come from the word idein which means to picture… or they have pictures of people… and yeah I totally get that...
SAMIA: Oh my gosh... oh my gosh… so I've seen that a lot… a lot of people you know have all of these like you said ideas about what it means if you have a physical disability or if someone else has a physical disability so to speak… And it's just… it causes a lot of suffering to… like a lot of these ideas also create a lot of self-doubts… And if you are like someone who's trying to do stuff in the world, to create positive change in your life and other people's lives, oh my gosh this can really erode your self-confidence and all of that... So I know you're… one of the things you're really awesome at is helping people eliminate self-doubt...
ADRIAN: Yeah yeah...
SAMIA: ...tell me more about that…
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ADRIAN: Yeah so what I so because I work with entrepreneurs I noticed that one day I was studying how to become I mean how to copyright right... So like you know I mean I'm an entrepreneur. I like to copyright, in terms of copy, sales letters and stuff, and one of the books is The Ultimate Sales Letter… it talks about before you start writing content for your audience, get to know your audience… like know who you are writing your content for… So someone told me to you know understand my client a lot... So I have journals here you go like just to have a lot of journals that I have… they're full of notes from sessions with clients right... And what I do is when I'm getting ready… so whenever it said get inside the conversation that's going on with their mind, I have a lot of details about that… like you know they tell me all of their problems right... And so I… one day I went through all of these and went through hundreds of pages and I noticed the number one fear… the number one problem going on with my clients… and all of my clients make six to eight figures in net, I mean in personal income a year, multiple six-eight figures... So they're very wealthy... I mean they're not extremely wealthy but they're well off… they're successful, they're accomplished or driven… but they still feel small and inadequate which I thought was really interesting... A lot of them feel small, smaller than their goals… they feel inadequate... A lot of them felt like they weren't worthy of success… now that they are successful they have an idea that they are not success… they're not worthy of maintaining the success or multiplying the success... And it was just a constant fear of… it's just a constant uncertainty… even if they had a very successful track record they will… they were still very uncertain and still very insecure with themselves... And so because I saw this I started to notice this was a big problem for people… In other words, they question themselves in terms of who they were... And once I noticed that was the biggest thing that was going on amongst these individuals it just got me really invested in helping them because I noticed that a lot of them also don't talk about these things… Because when you're running a company, especially when you have team members and stuff, you don't want to be perceived as like... Hey I'm going through something right now... You don't want to be perceived as like weak… even though it's not a perception of being weak… it's just, hey you're a human being and you're experiencing something... And so they hold it in... And when they hold it in they just develop more and more of a baggage… It's like you're trying to take off on a hot air balloon but that hot air balloon is being weighed down by sandbags... And so what I do is I come in and I remove those sandbags so they can get to where they want to go a lot more easier… with a lot more fun at the same time...
SAMIA: Nice… I love it... So what would you say is like maybe a root cause of like the self-doubt... Because you're absolutely right… It is such a huge problem that so many people face… pretty much I think all of us at one time or another certainly...
ADRIAN: Yeah... I think everybody...
SAMIA: ...have had to deal with it. I know I've dealt with it... What have you found is like one of the root causes...
ADRIAN: Well...
SAMIA: ..for self-doubt?
ADRIAN: That ranges in turn because there I don't care who you meet, there's no fundamental rule… number one root cause for every single problem and for every slight… Like if I have self-doubt my root cause can be extremely different from yours right, in terms of the content… The context is always the same… the context is a belief about yourself… that content, that is the block… So let's put it this way... I had a client who was generating $18 million a year in a Real Estate Company… pretty successful right... doing really well… and he was feeling great about… I mean everything was going great in his business… he got to the point of his business where he was ready to hire a CEO to come in and basically run the company and he was just kind of gonna step out… he was still the owner, but he wasn't going to be in the day to day anymore… and so he wanted to spend all of it there... The number one reason why he wanted to step out was because, number one, he didn't expect it to grow this fast… Number two, he really wanted to speak on stages… to write books… that was where his heart was… He said if I can bring in somebody to run my company I can have the time to start writing and doing these things... And the problem was…he brought in three CEOs but he micromanaged every single one of them and all of them quit their job... So he quickly realized I have a pattern of ruin… every time somebody comes in, I consistently push them away to run my company… in other words I'm like always taking away my time from writing, I'm always procrastinating on writing, I'm always putting something over writing… something over speaking… and I can't seem to start speaking and writing… like dude what is going on? Like I'm not sure what's happening… you think hypnosis would help?
I was like well let's figure out what's going on... So hypnosis not... Well when I work with people I don't do this every time… but timeline regression is a real thing, and I don't utilize it with everybody depending on what's going on... Sometimes there's not a need to go back into time… But what timeline regression is… imagine shutting your brain off to the point where… not your brain… imagine right now your brain has a light... Imagine that we turn that light off and it gets dark… timeline regression is turning a flashlight on and looking at every memory… looking at every part of your mind to see what those memories are… what you have not paid attention… to see what those beliefs are that you have yet to pay attention to… what in your past… what event... Did you pick something up right. And so with this client he went back to a memory where he was four years old and in this memory of him being four years old he was at his grandma's house and they were… they just got done trick or treating… it was Halloween night and all of them were sitting in a circle… him and all of his cousins… There was like five of them and he was the youngest cousin… he was four years old… his oldest cousin was nine… Remember my client was 33 years old now, but this was a memory... So he, in this memory, it's very vivid for him because in hypnosis it tends to be pretty vivid... And he goes… I was like what's happening… and he said well, everybody's talking and I'm trying to say something… I'm like well why, what's happening... He was… well in that memory he spoke up… but when he spoke up the oldest cousin said shut up, nobody wants to hear you... So when his oldest cousin told him that my client tells himself… because this is what we all do... we look at our… we look at our environment, we look at the events taking place, our data, or we look at the data around us and we interpret that data… we make it mean something... So in that moment, my client who was four years old at the time, his little mind with all the information it had up until that point did the best it could to make sense of what just happened… and he says... my voice doesn't matter… And then in that moment he decided to believe his voice didn't matter... No wonder at 33 years old now he wasn't writing his book and he wasn't being on stages… why... Because his voice doesn't matter. I don't know about you but putting your book out there, speaking on a stage, that's putting your voice out there and in an extremely vulnerable way... Why would you do that if you genuinely believe, if there's a 4-year-old kid inside of you that believes their voice doesn't matter? Your mind will not allow you to do it… literally… because the belief is in itself the root cause… there's… it's not that that event was the root cause... It's not that “my voice doesn't matter, nobody wants to hear me” was the root cause... it was the fact that he chose to believe those things. A belief is the root cause to everything… Your entire external world, every circumstance you are dealing with is a… is just a reflection of your own perceptions… it is a reflection of your own projections... And so my client was showing himself that he was not good enough. We did the session and now his books are out. He was writing his book for four years… he got it done in four months... He was on Newsfeed Weekly... He's been featured on a couple of other like TV channels and a couple of other things now… and he's been speaking now… He's gotten speaking engagements and he's doing things… He's over the fears… he’s getting to where he wants to go. Why... because he uncovered the belief behind the emotional response... Because what happens is when you believe something it creates an electromagnetic charge… a belief creates an electromagnetic reaction which is a feeling… when a belief creates a feeling… or a belief will create another thought and a feeling… and then it becomes a circle… and then you are just thinking certain thoughts, feeling certain ways, believing certain things… And you think that you are at the mercy of external conditions when in reality you're so intertwined with your environment and the events in it that you can't even dictate in seeing… distinguish the thoughts and the expectations in the beliefs that created it... So that's the root to everything… if you're dealing with something the root cause is not that you don't believe you're good enough... the root cause it's not that your voice doesn't matter… the root cause is a belief... Belief is the basis of your human experience. So changing beliefs is the number one way to legitimately… and when I say legitimately I mean on a physics level, change your actual world… By changing a belief your world or reality will reorganize itself to meet the brand new belief… But that's my super long answer to your super short question of what is the root cause of self-doubt...
SAMIA: Ah! Thank you for giving that answer and for just being so real about it you know… because my gosh, I am totally with you... I 100% agree with you. You know… and isn't it so interesting… like in this example that you were sharing of this client... On the one hand he has his belief that his voice doesn't matter and that was holding him back from writing his book, from speaking on stages in a certain context… but on the other hand the other pattern of behavior that he was demonstrating was this micromanaging of other people… like his CEOs right... And so in that context he's speaking a lot and almost to a point where… or in a way where he's like doing too much of it...
ADRIAN: Yeah... exactly.
SAMIA: Right...
ADRIAN: Yeah. So there's something interesting here... So the mind's number one job… that is the mind's number one job is self-preservation… it's to keep you alive and keep you healthy for as long as humanly possible... That's why when you burn your hand on the stove when you're little you never do it again… The mind is designed to prevent danger and drive you towards pleasure... That is how it keeps you alive... So in his mind… his mind perceived speaking on stages and putting his voice out there as dangerous... So what his mind did was produce symptoms… it would produce patterns to prevent him from being on a stage like that… And since he felt like he didn't have a voice, that drove his ambition to start a company and say "haha I did this… I'm running this thing now"... It gave him a sense of significance that he didn't feel in that moment... So it became a positive thing because it drove him to create success that many of us just dream of, right… But it also was a double edge sword and it came with.. "Hey you're too scared to get out there and lead the way you know you're capable of leading." Right... It's all because it comes down to that inner perspective of us...
SAMIA: Yeah... and I think it also has a little bit to do with… there's so much that we end up doing in our lives in reaction to try and prove something right or wrong… But if you're doing it from that place of reaction and trying to prove something right or wrong, you can only go so far with that as the motivation and the strategy to move you forward... Because as long as you're in that mindset, underlying that mindset is still… there's that part of you that still believes that other thing that you're trying to disprove, you know...
ADRIAN: Exactly, exactly...
SAMIA: Right…
ADRIAN: And can I say one thing that I just really want to kind of get across because when I tell these stories… because a lot of the things that I do is people are like they're doing a lot of timeline regression and they're uncovering what I call… because what hypnosis does and I think this is important for people to understand so if they have any weird feelings toward hypnosis they'd you know leave that be right… I mean so they can leave that are behind... but hypnosis itself is just a process… that hypnosis is not a state of mind... Hypnosis is a process that induces a state of mind... What hypnosis does is it gets somebody from beta brainwaves… right now me and you are in beta… we're in an alert wakeful consciousness. Hypnosis drives somebody all the way past alpha into theta... When you're in theta something significant happens... Your unconscious mind… the door in between the conscious and the unconscious… when I say the door I mean it's invisible, it doesn't really exist guys… it metaphorically opens up and it's easier to communicate with it... So you're able to uncover your belief system and change the belief system right... So that's why… that's the reason why it's powerful... It's not like a woo-woo thing. It is a legit science of getting people's brainwaves down to change neural pathways... That's all it is… Just like cognitive behavior therapy, in psychotherapy, they do the same thing. But hypnosis does it a lot quicker... So that's basically what it is... Now with that being said… because your beliefs are your subconscious mind… because I help people access their subconscious mind, they have an idea that do I have to go back to all my childhood shit to see where I… excuse my language right… but do I have to go back to all my childhood stuff and see where I picked up these problems... And it's like no you absolutely do not... Your point of power is right now… your conscious mind is very powerful… if you follow your patterns of thought, they are coming from beliefs... a belief is nothing more than a thought that you keep thinking. So if you pay attention to your pattern of thought on a daily basis you will be aware of your belief system… you don't need to go into a trance… you don't need to do the… I need to go see my inner child to do this... No, but what you need to do is catch the belief when you say it …for example earlier today I was pitching some pretty big fortune 500 company to go in and train their sales team on how to use hypnosis to close more deals... So I was pitching them and in my mind… I immediately… in my body I felt insecure and kind of not safe, right... Like I felt insecure, a little imposter syndrome and then I was about to send a message. But then something said, they're not gonna like… they're not going to talk to you... But I caught myself because I've been doing… so like I've trained myself, and I like watch my thoughts… and so I caught myself in that moment. And I said… “they're not going to talk to me” is an idea, that is a belief about reality, that is an assumption of mind... but that is not actual reality... So I used my conscious mind in that moment to change my… my emotional charge, by focusing on a different emotional picture… by changing my perspective in that moment. By that… you can change beliefs consciously, you do not need to access the super… it's not a super deep state… We go into it every night… when you go to sleep you go into theta... it's a regular thing. But you don't… I just don't want people to like fall into it… because I've noticed I've had some people from other podcasts and like other trainings… they would reach out and be like, “do I have to like go do all my deep stuff now?” I'm like… look, you actually don't... But what you do have to do is become aware of your constant pattern of thought… that is the key to changing things. Because patterns of thought are only beliefs externalized... And they're saying, hey, pay attention to me... It's only… so it's not a matter of uncovering unconscious beliefs… It's a matter of uncovering beliefs you have yet to examine in your conscious mind... But they are there in your conscious mind. It is just, hey, number one, do you believe they're in your conscious mind and do you want to… are you… do you actually intend to examine them? Do you try to examine them? It's important that if you believe you're at the mercy of your subconscious mind, it will seem that way. Beliefs shape your experience. If you believe… I have some unconscious block going on... that's BS… No, you're conscious of the block that you're saying. The block is the belief that there is a block holding you back… That is the block... it is not the actual there's a block… I'm like, no, there's a belief that there is a block… my friend you're creating it. It's not a matter of… See, the conscious mind is designed to see these things… The conscious mind is designed to see clearly... But it is our own beliefs that shadow us. It is our own beliefs that puzzle up the… puzzle up the image... It is our own beliefs that trick us, that say, "Hey you're looking through this prison cell". But the prison cell’s actually your own creation... you can easily take it away… but you can do this consciously... Like I want people to understand, the conscious mind is powerful… When I utilize hypnosis with somebody I don't take their conscious mind out of the picture… Their conscious mind is in the picture, their conscious mind is doing the work… because… your conscious mind doesn't disappear... When you go to sleep your conscious mind is still there… your ego is still there… there's a sense of self that is conscious… Even when you die there is a conscious awareness of hey I just did transition, right... That conscious mind that’s there is a powerful thing. And so I want people to also just understand, yes, I'm a hypnotist and in my field a lot of hypnotists will tell you… you got to uncover the subconscious mind. My friends, the subconscious is conscious if you pay attention. So I just want people to think… it's just invaluable to say to people...
SAMIA: Yes. And oh my gosh, you actually talked about something that I would have asked you about …because I actually have a very similar perspective to yours... and I always am so…you know I mean you already said it honestly...
ADRIAN: Go ahead...
SAMIA: Honestly they went out my biggest realizations that I've had in my life that has been life changing for me… that… the belief that you know these kinds of beliefs about… like for example the belief that change has to be hard… it's just going to be hard...
ADRIAN: Yes...
SAMIA: It's always hard…
ADRIAN: That's a famous belief...
SAMIA: Exactly! And it's like there's so many other things right...
ADRIAN: ..that's an assumption. That's not a reality...
SAMIA: Exactly...
ADRIAN: ...you know…
SAMIA: And it's like people go into these things… like they have this certain surface level knowledge of how therapy works… and people have these you know images in their mind of you know… you go to a therapist and you lay down on the couch and then you talk about all your childhood stuff...
ADRIAN: Yeah yeah...
SAMIA: And that you have to do that to get the therapy you need...
ADRIAN: ...I believe that's damaging to people... So like to consistently over analyze your past… I genuinely believe that's damaging to people… I'm like, you should pay attention to your current reality, because your current reality, your thoughts today… I mean your reality today, is what you thought yesterday...
SAMIA: Yeah.
ADRIAN: You know so everything... the answers are here in this moment you know if you go back in time you're going back now still...
SAMIA: Yeah.
ADRIAN: You know and I go ahead...
SAMIA: I agree... I agree with you… because people spend so much time trying to figure out why… you know why did this happen to me… how did I end up in this place... I need to go back into my past, you know what I mean...
ADRIAN: Can I say something here...
SAMIA: Yes.
ADRIAN: Okay okay... so this is gonna first and foremost if anybody is thinking that right now you're about to I'm about to save your freaking life with this perspective... So here we go… how did this happen to me... Why am I here... What's going on…? I've thought those things too. I'm not here to belittle anybody's situation. I love every human being. I've gone through this stuff too… but I've also got on the other side and I want y'all to see this... The thoughts literally… thoughts literally shape reality. In 1801 we discovered what an electron was. In 1770 something we discovered what electricity was. In 1820 something we discovered that electricity produces magnetism. And then in the 30’s of the 1830’s we discovered that at the basis of an atom is an electron, it is an electromagnetic field... And only in the 20’s, in the 1920’s did they really start to amp up the hey, there is actually something way deeper than matter here... there is actually inside of these pieces of matter, there is an electromagnetic charge that we can't see, but it's alive. In other words it's vibrant, it is vibrational... And they can… they have tools today that can measure this... So everything you're seeing, and not seeing, like the spaces all right here …they all consist of this electromagnetic energy, right... So now that we got that in the 1800’s, I believe it was the late 1800’s… there was a scientist that accidentally discovered that the brain was electric and the heart was magnetic. And they saw that actually both the brain and heart are extremely electromagnetic. When you think a thought it produces an electromagnetic impulse of energy... when you feel an emotion it produces an electromagnetic impulse of energy… you following me so far…?
SAMIA: Yes...
ADRIAN: Okay so clearly... we are made of the same stuff that everything in the world is made up...
SAMIA: Yeah...
ADRIAN: Right… Now our hearts produce a magnificently powerful God-like creative magnetic power… it is a God-like power… when I say God-like, it creates... So this heart that radiates energy is very creative in its… in its nature. So whenever… and they've measured this on 9/11… we have these two satellites… US has two famous satellites that measure the electromagnetic energy of the earth. One of the satellites on 9/11, when the planes got… when the planes hit the towers, picked up a massive spike in the electromagnetic field. And so they said, hold on, the earth's energy just shifted in ways we've never seen before... So they got that graph, they got the data, they pinpointed the data to see when the two spikes happened… they pinpointed the data to see when the spikes happened. The first spike happened 14 minutes after the first plane hit... the second spike happened like 12 minutes after the second plane hit... In other words, that emotional experience was global… that emotional… I don't care who you were, if you were alive at that time, you felt something, even if you were a little kid who was not even conscious of what was happening... So at that time there was such an emotional experience… what that emotional experience did was literally it went through the atmosphere and changed the vibration of the world... So literally, thought by thought, feeling by feeling, you are creating your reality in a very real way. Your world is a reflection of your perceptions... So if you want to figure out, why did I get here? You are what's happening to you... you are where you are because of the thoughts in your head. Every idea you hold is an electromagnetic charge that will materialize into matter, into a living experience... So my friends you are where you are because you thought and you felt yourself there...
SAMIA: Yes! Yes... And it's like the old way of doing things I will say, because… old in the sense that before we had this knowledge before we had this understanding we were limited to trying to figure things out at the level of matter… but now that we have this new understanding, we can actually learn to create change and understand things at this other level... And it's just so much faster...
ADRIAN: Yeah...
SAMIA: If you're talking about fun and easy... I find it so much more fun and easy...
ADRIAN: Yes, and that's what you're saying... What you're saying about fun and easy… I love your name, and thank you for saying this... I wanted to say something about your name… when you say make change fun and easy, that is genius... Because I'm not religious at all right... I respect everybody's religion. I do love what Jesus be talking about... One of the things Jesus says that I love is… to become… to enter the kingdom you must become again as a child, right... to enter the kingdom you must become again as a child... And if an old man would go to ask a seven day old infant what is life, that old man would live for eternity… When Jesus said those things, there is something very playful about that… I want you to… when you look at an electron is a positive charge... literally the foundation of the universe is like a loving energy… it is a fun, it is a vibrant, it is a creative energy... Look at children… children are closer to the, to the source… they're not closer to source… but for language purposes let’s just use that so people understand… they're closer to source than we are… Look how unfiltered they are… look how expressive they are… Treat changing your beliefs, changing your life, like a game… have fun with it… pretend. Like me, before I ever made any real money in my life, I pretended like I had money… I was acting like a kid... Think about this… when a five… when my five… I mean my nephew, when he was six or seven, he was a ninja for a… for Halloween… To everybody else he was a little six or seven year old regular boy… but to him that was a trained elite ninja… in his mind, he was a full-on ninja… you could not tell him otherwise… if you said his name, he was like, that's not my name... my name is this ninja name… he was a full-on ninja. That level of expectation, that level of play, is what's necessary to change your life through a scientific approach… if you want to scientifically change your life and reorganize your reality, change your electromagnetic field… make change fun and easy, and it would actually happen... One of the principles to making visualization work is child-like wonder …when you approach it like a child shit just happens for you... So it's so important that people understand that… make change fun and easy… be again like a kid be again... It is real and it makes a profound impact on how fast you get results...
SAMIA: Awesome... awesome… and oh my gosh Adrian, I'm having so much fun talking to you and we are running out of time...
ADRIAN: I know... I know…
SAMIA: So I have to wrap up for today… but do you have any last words… how can people get in touch with you…?
ADRIAN: Well my last words before I tell them some… like what… you know just what I want them to… if you're going to take away anything from this conversation is that you are God-like in terms of how you can create... there is a very… you see this picture back here right… it's just… it's of Adam… you're reaching out to God... if you notice you know Adam's fingers all limp… it's just kind of hanging out there… just chilling you know. And then God's hand is like... hey I'm trying to like, I'm right here… you don't need to work really hard… we are the same thing if you just realize that there is a creative power within every single one of you... You are not at mercy of your external events… you are not at mercy of events outside of you... there is no separate event from you. All of the events that are happening in your life are an extension of you... So you can change whatever you want by just changing the pictures in your head… If you change the picture in your head... the world will project that picture right back to you. So spend some time every day focusing on what you want… and whenever you're moving forward in your day-to-day life, move forward with that image top of mind... So the whole time I've been speaking here, the TED logo, TEDx logo, has been in my mind… why? Because that's my next goal... So in every action I do, whenever I'm waking up, when I'm working out, when I'm talking to you, this is my second podcast interview of the day… when I'm writing, when I'm doing something, TEDx is in the top of my head... I keep it top of mind and where do I go... I go in those directions. Keep in mind, there's nothing wrong with you, you're not broken. Those are ideas about reality... you are literally the creator, and you can do whatever you want with that. So I'm gonna say that… Now aside from that if you want to continue to follow me... there's two ways you can follow me... The first and foremost way is gonna be a real… you know what, actually just… I'm gonna just give them this way so I simplify it for them, and number two it's going to show them all of my other socials... So if you're interested in figuring, if you're interested in changing your belief system and gaining a level of unshakable certainty in yourself so you can come on shows like this, you can walk on stages, you can present yourself like the person and the powerful individual that you are, if you want to be more certain in yourself and you want to trust your decisions and move forward and express yourself... I created something called “The Unshakable Entrepreneur”... what it's designed to do, it's 100% free for your audience… what it's designed to do... it's designed to take you through an experience where you are going to be able to truly dip into a powerful state of mind and eliminate things that are holding you back like self-doubt, insecurity, performance anxiety, or the thought of being broken... So if any of that.. if that sounds even slightly interesting to you, just go to www… and you can put this in the show notes, but, www.rewiremythoughts.com/unshakeable… www.rewiremythoughts.com/unshakable… And just put your email in... and yes you got to give me your email… put your email in. And then it's going to go ahead and it's going to shoot it straight to your email and you'll have sign in access. And my emails will say, hey, look here's my podcast, here's my socials, and then you'll be able to like follow me… If you want some more personal things... And I message my email list every day so we can talk through email everyday...
SAMIA: Coolness... that's amazing, that's awesome… For sure we'll add your links in the show notes... So people, our dear listener, please check those show notes, connect with Adrian. Also by the way, I’ll drop my links in there if you want to get in touch with me... And until we connect next time I just wish you lots and lots of peace and joy. :)
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